So, I have a question, its a weird one. When a guy asks if I’m a top or a bottom, I don’t know how to answer. I don’t like either, its nothing to do with power and who is in control, but I just don’t like anal. Usually, the next question I get is “Are you really gay?” I…
Anonymous asked: In response to the last post/question... I feel this way too, but what I find more unsettling is the actual question itself - I feel like other guys are too brazen with their sexual questioning and it makes me uncomfortable when someone I barely know asks me such personal questions just because I'm also gay. Personally I am also am not interested in the power/submission aspect of sex. Penetrative sex can be great, sure... but it's far from the only way to enjoy sex
So, I have a question, its a weird one. When a guy asks if I’m a top or a bottom, I don’t know how to answer. I don’t like either, its nothing to do with power and who is in control, but I just don’t like anal. Usually, the next question I get is “Are you really gay?” I feel like people automatically assume that if you’re gay, you have to like anal, are there other guys that are like this, or am I just weird?
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Force homophobes to atone for their actions: gay rating site Rainbow Chronicle will send you these stickers (check them out here http://imgur.com/RjjHR) for free, slap them up on Chick-fil-a’s, slap them up on republican politicians’ offices. Make a scene. Email them your mailing address at info@rainbowchronicle.com
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Honesty, I don’t believe this is as productive as people think it is. People who are against same sex anything already think gay people are annoying, putting a sticker somewhere just makes it even worse. They’ll just think “who was the faggot who put this here” sorry if it is offensive to anyone for me saying that, but its true, they won’t open their eyes and minds to homosexuality, but shun it even more than it already is.
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A Boston-based startup is hoping to tackle issues like LGBT bullying and suicide by providing a way to rate different people and places based on their gay-friendliness.
The only site of its kind, RainbowChronicle.com allows users to rate anything from local businesses to elected politicians based on their openness to people of different sexual orientations and/or homophobia. The idea is that individuals can check in with the site before voting for a certain person or visiting a restaurant or bar, just to get a sense of how gay-friendly it will be, and therefore hopefully avoid homophobic establishments.
It’s run by a couple of open-minded straight guys from conservative backgrounds, and it’s already taking off, with several hundred users a day:
“Businesses can be geared toward a gay clientele… I think all anyone wants for most businesses though is for sexuality to be a non-issue. I don’t want to have to think about gay or straight if I’m going to grab a beer with my friends at a random bar,” wrote RainbowChronicle used Burdette, a gay man who asked to only go by his last name. “The other factor is the patrons. Sometimes this matters as much or more than the business itself.”
Check this site out and feel free to add your own ratings. It could very well become a valuable resource for lots of people out there.
